March 30, 2026When Sherry got sick people were incredibly kind. They showed up for her in the ways people show up —…
March 23, 2026There's a woman in your life who has already been through something. You know who she is. You don't always…
March 2, 2026I was a planner. Past tense intentional — not because I've stopped planning entirely, but because the version of me…
February 23, 2026Some days are just hard. Not dramatically hard. Not crisis hard. Just the regular, unglamorous, nobody-is-going-to-write-a-memoir-about-this kind of hard that…
February 19, 2026There is a particular kind of woman who gets dressed in the morning with everyone else in mind. She checks…
February 14, 2026There was one sentence underneath every conversation about Sherry’s diagnosis. I do not think I said it to her. I…
January 31, 2026We had a family cruise scheduled for January 2024. Then Sherry was diagnosed in December, and the calendar split into…
January 29, 2026There was a version of me that didn't go to law school. She existed for about six months after the…
January 26, 2026Graduation was supposed to be a Thursday in May. I'd thought about it more than I'd admitted to anyone. The…
January 19, 2026For a long time I explained myself a lot. Not in the obvious way. Not in the way where you…
